Thread: TTC After Tubal Reversal

Okay, so my stupid computer at home has a virus so I can only post when I am working. So everyone on my BG said that I would probably O on Saturday. So I tried to convince my DH to BD with me on Friday when I got home, but he is still sick, so it didn't work out. I set the alarm for 4am so I could temp. I of course took my temp and went back to sleep! So my DH wakes me up because he of course is caliente', so we DTD and after; I checked my temp and it was 98.05! YEA! So we BD the day of. This is the first time we have ever done that. Anyways I was totally excited! I took my temps all weekend and they were good. Today is CD3 and I started the progesterone. I am so hoping this is our month. It is time for it to be our time. I am always worried that sex is going to turn into baby making sex only. God I hope not. Me and my DH have never really had problems wanting it. But sometimes I think I put pressure on him to BD more during the fertile time and I don't let it be spontaneous. I know he hates that. Oh well if its not our month, maybe I just need to let it be!

If Ya'll want to look at my chart click on the www icon at the bottom. I have it linked to my chart. See ya!

Well I am DPO4. That is a good thing. Temp is staying up, I am taking the progesterone, so I guess in 9 more days I will know something. This 2WW is killing me. I am the most impatient person. But what can I do? Anyways my DH is still pissed that I am continuing to take my temps. Once again I tried to explain it to him. but I swear it is like I am talking to the wall. Men!!! (not all, but most) GRRRR! Anyways I printed out all my previous charts, because I want to see if there is a difference now that I am taking progesterone. It should be interesting. I read some where that if your temps fluctuate after you O than there could be a possibility that you don't have enough progesterone. HMMMM Like I said I am taking natural progesterone, so it shouldn't hurt anything. But because my tubes are shorter I am hoping it will help my lining to be ready earlier for implantation to happen. I will keep you all posted. See ya!

So I am 5DPO and my temp went down a bit. Why can't my temp go sky high? Good thing is, is that for the last couple of days I have had EWCM. That is a sign. I keep telling myself not to read into any symptoms this month because everytime I do BAM AF shows up with a vengeance. I have been taking the progesterone like I said I would, I keep wondering if maybe that'll do the trick. Something has to give sometime. I posted my question to my BG about progesterone because I heard if you get a BFN then you need to stop the progesterone in order for AF to start, but no one even answered my. GRRRR! Sometimes having a BG is good and other times it is annoying. Anyways 8 more days. Can the wait get any worse???

Okay today I am 6DPO. Temp came back up today, so 7 more days till I know something. Last night I was thinking about all this TTC crap. Why is it that as woman we are the ones who have to chart, keep temps, do opk's and figure out the best time to BD. If we aren't pregnant within a year we are the ones who have to go through ultrasounds, HSG's, blood samples, biopsies, and all the stress. The only things the men have to do is have sex with his women and sometimes they have to come in a cup to do an SA. HELLO why do we have to go through all this and then men go and say we are the ones who need to relax??? How is that ****ing possible. On top of TTC we still have lives to live. We are mothers and wifes. I work 9 hrs a day then I come home cook dinner, do laundry, bathe the kids, do homework, play with the kids, clean up after the dog, clean the house, and I still need to find quality time with my husband? Hello that is only in 1 day. So when you add the TTC stuff, that is where you get the reason so many women are on antidepressents. Why can't they understand this crap? Sorry I just need to vent. Now I feel better.

Hi,
I thought I would drop by and tell you that my tube lenghts are 4cm and 3cm tubes and having just as hard time as you. I wish you lots of luck and I hope you get a BFP soon. I had my tr in March as well and no BFP here either.

Hi hoping for a miracle. When did you have your TR and with whom? Are ya trying anything different? Can take all the suggestions. Good luck to ya and if you ever need anything feel free to ask.

Sorry I saw you had yours in March also. We should keep in touch!

Hi,
I used a Dr. Perez in Mexico and he is a very good doctor but my Tubal ligation doctor was a butcher and so I only got 4cm and 3cm . Well, we are thinking of trying IUI and maybe that will work. What have you tried?

My DH and I are probably not going to go that route until it has been a year. He believes it will happen in God's time. If I had my choice I would have probably done IUI. My tubes ended up short because I had a lot of scar tissue. I did have an HSG done and they are open and flowing good. So I guess the only thing I can do for a while is wait it out. How much is IUI going to cost you? Good luck to you!