I have been married for almost 8 years. We have just started ttc. We have talked about it before but he always freaks out before we started trying. So far so good this time. He has even brought the subject up. I am trying not to make it like a lab experiment. I am charting my ovulation and not telling him. Just trying to make sure I do the BD when I need to. I am very anxious as I wanted children when we first got married. I worry that everything works ok. My husband has a vericocele, which can affect fertility. He was check about 6 years ago, but not recently. All of my friends have already had atleast one child, if not 2 or 3. I would be devistated if I could not have one. I have been patient all these years. I know I should just relax and go do it. I don't want stress it affect BD.