Have you heard of these books? http://www.family-empower.com/parenting-books/raising-our-sons/
I have wanted to buy both books for a little while. The school counselor at work lent me the Raising Our Sons book and I am sold. It is so good. I love the positive parenting concepts it provides. I have not read the entire thing yet and it is really meant for discussion groups, but I want to share it with my hubby.