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    So sorry about your Dad. Hoping and praying he's well and all okay. TTC is a difficult journey, it's okay to cry, we all do it. I don't think a D&C will cause you to not get pregnant, there could be other factors at play. I've been taking fertility herbs and got pregnant last time using them, sometimes we just need an extra boost or little tricks like Robitussin at O time, etc. I hear good things about acupuncture too. I was told to go for massages but DH is always working lately (stupid economy, it's required for his job to monitor stuff more now than ever).

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    Thank you soo much for your kind words
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    Tasha - So sorry to hear about your dad, thoughts and prayers for you and your mom I agree with Jennifer, ttc is a difficult journey for some of us. Hang in there
    ~Mary

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    Thanks Mary .. I kno that patience is def key here but argggghh
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    Hi All

    hope everyone is okay!
    Tash...hows your dad doing?

    I'm stressing out at the mo...I hate hate hate the job I am doing..I am utterly crap at it...and I just keep getting told I am crap at it...today it was insinuated that I was crap at it because I didn't want to work in that department!
    WTF!!
    I hate it because I am crap at it..and of course I want to be in another department when I am better facing customers...and also my team are a bunch of A$$wipes!!!

    I had an interview on Monday for an office role...much more me....fingers crossed I get it.
    I can't do with all the stress I am having at the mo...not good for my ailments..or baby making!!

    So stressed I want to punch someone!!!!
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    Liz my dad is great thanks for asking!! Ugh i hope u get that job i know the feeling of being some place i absolutely hate!!
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    Unhappy Pity Party - table for me

    So today I am going to choose to post on this thread -- it has been a very very emotional day and I have nobody here to turn to and so I turn to you ladies (no offence to come to you first, just easier to talk than type sometimes)

    I am frustrated .... frustrated with this path that we are on
    I am jealous of those who are surprised with two pink lines

    THREE girls in our office have all become pregnant and given their notice ... THREE
    There are only eight women in our office - the rest men
    All three had a "surprise" with two pink lines ....

    And then there is me -- ugh! Seriously - I really really do not like me these days. I have so much sadness in me, and I feel like such a failure.

    The worst part of it is that we go for our adoption workshop starting tonight -- I am going to have to paint on a mask to hide my feelings when I attend. It is great that these women are willing to give up their babies to those of us who are desperately trying to become a mother ..... but part of me wants to scream because it is not fair that they get to have that choice to begin with.

    And then there is the added stress ontop of it -- I am trying to juggle three people's workload (yes, the amount of work for three full time employees) and the flippin company is so damn cheap they don't want to hire anyone! I have to stay putting up with it as DH is in school and I get to pay all the bills (we agreed that we would do this but man it is hard!)
    And then there is where we are going to live --- I seriously am pretty much homeless .... well okay, I have a roof over my head until June, 2012 but then that is it! I have no idea where we will be living and DH just shrugs his shoulders and says what will be will be when I ask him where he things we should live. Mind you, he does not have a job so I guess we should wait for that to happen before we decide where we will live but it would be nice to have something a little more concrete.
    I am just so stressed out!! No wonder AF was 2 weeks long this past month! UGH!

    Sorry if I have offended anyone ...
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    Oh Tacie, I'm so sorry. I wish I could come over and bring some brownies and we could pig out, lol. Vent all you want, we understand. Thinking of you.

    ~Mary

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    *hugehugs* Tacie, I'm so sorry about all this stress and frustration. I'm glad that you feel comfortable enough to share here with us and vent. We are here for you.
    Sophia 41, DH 36


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    I must apologize as I was mean in my vent and I do not want to offend or hurt anyone - I sincerely apologize if my words have and ask that you forgive me.

    Thank you for the support - I do appreciate it
    There was alot of fear, jealousy and self anger in my rant/vent
    ~ Tacie's Space ~ TTC #1 since Jan 01, 2006

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