Completely Devastated *update 2*
DH's SA came back today and let's just say, I don't eve know how I have a daughter. He is seeing a urologist on Tuesday and I'm waiting for my oB to call back. At this point I have no idea what is going to happen in terms of treatment. If any, at the moment... :( I have cried my eyes out. He is destroyed, we are just at a loss. HIs numbers were soooo low it was shocking. I'm probably at my lowest I've ever been. At this point, I'm not even sure I can even have a baby. I'm just destroyed right now. I will KUP as to what happens next week.
Okay, so he went first yesterday, and let's say it was Okay and then NOT GOOD! :( First off, he was not overly concerned with DH's SA results. He said he has good quantity and good mobility, which is a positive. So he gave us a regimen of how we needed to time sex. He said that men with results like that must start having sex 72 hours prior to O, and then we needed to BD every 12 hours after that until after O!!! HOLY COW!! Then I must elevate my legs during and after BD for at least 20 min. He said I can't even cough!!! He wasn't too thrilled that DH produced at home, and actually leaned toward the test not being that accurate. He must repeat in 6 weeks to get a better understanding. Now the bad news... he had sugar in his urine. Which means he is either pre-diabetic or already a diabetic. Which explains a lot symptom wise and fertility wise. He has to get blood work this week, and follow up with the MD and start treatment if needed. He must make a complete lifestyle change now before this gets out of hand. This might very well be the reason for not conceiving. At least we have some answers and can keep TTC. I go today to the OB...will post when I get back *****
*****Well we were referred to the RE. We have an appointment next Friday afternoon. She is very well respected here in NJ, has awesome credentials, so I'm hopeful. AND the insurance covers everything of what I was told. They are really good at this office and will keep me up to speed with all the insurance info anyway. The only down side is that it is 40 min away from our house! :( I could have gone to another RE much closer but my OB insisted I see this one, so I'm just following her instructions Everyone thank you so much for everything, I really feel grateful for all the support that I have been getting here. It is very much appreciated. This has been a stressful week and now to top it of my damn tooth hurts and I have to go to the dentist tomorrow. IT just NEVER ends...****