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No more TTC for me. I am divorcing Sean. I am so sick of his crap. I think the only reason I have stayed the last year was because I was pregnant and then the loss was so hard.

I hate that Robbie has had to listen to mommy yell at the ())$(I(@ but children deal better with a broken home then the anger and bitterness that I feel right now.

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So sorry Margaret ! Sometimes its better to move on then to keep putting up with things ..

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*hugehugs* I am so sorry Margaret.

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Oh my sweet.
Wish I had seen this before responding to your Facebook message !!
I am so sorry!!
What can I do???
How are you feeling?
I had no idea.
You are amazingly selfless. Always looking after others yet not saying a word about your troubles.
I am here for you love.
Xxxxxxx

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I'm so sorry you are dealing with this. My thoughts and prayers are with you. Huge HUGS

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Hugs! We are here if you need us.

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Margaret, I am so sorry. I know it was incredibly difficult to make such a heartbreaking but brave decision for you and your Robbie. :bigarmhug:

Jean

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Hugs Margaret :bighug:

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I'm so sorry. :bigarmhug:

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so sorry!! :bighug:

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"Lizbet22" wrote:

I had no idea.
You are amazingly selfless. Always looking after others yet not saying a word about your troubles.
I am here for you love.
Xxxxxxx

It is easier to hide the pain then to let others know. We are still living in the same house for now, it is hard but I will deal with it. We will do Christmas together for Robbie's sake (one thing I liked about how my parents dealt with their divorce). Sean is finally starting counselling but for me it is a little too late. Will see if anything changes but I am not hopeful.

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Sorry to hear this but I've been there myself, on my 2nd marriage now. You have to be strong and do what's best for you. Keep us posted on how things go, if counseling helps or not. My ex decided to get help but it was too late and the help did not help him, things escalated for us but hopefully that won't happen with you two. I mean, my ex was a total nutjob and was abusive (long story).

:bigarmhug:

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"WhiteWolf68" wrote:

Sorry to hear this but I've been there myself, on my 2nd marriage now. You have to be strong and do what's best for you. Keep us posted on how things go, if counseling helps or not. My ex decided to get help but it was too late and the help did not help him, things escalated for us but hopefully that won't happen with you two. I mean, my ex was a total nutjob and was abusive (long story).

:bigarmhug:

I am lucky that Sean has never been abusive in any way. I do have a bruise on my arm and he told me to take a picture for the divorce...stupid man!

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You never know. DH did a complete transformation after I left him one time. We split for a little over a year for "personal" reasons but when I decided to give him another shot I was so surprised on how much he had changed. However, I'm a huge believer that the change must be done on their part, not because you forced them to. I think thats when things well eventually go back to the way they were. They need to admit they are wrong and go from there.
Wising you the best!

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Wow, Margaret the strength you posses is amazing! So sorry you are going through this. Hugs!!!

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Margaret - I'm so sorry to hear this. You've been through so much.

I have been down the road so if you need anything please feel free to PM me. I too lived in the same house with my ex until we had a formal separation agreement in place. It was such an awkward and difficult time for me. It also happened to be during the November, December, January time frame so I can at least partially understand your circumstances.

You are a strong and amazing woman. Please let me know if there is anything I can do to help.

-Christina

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sorry to hear that it has been such a rough road. i had no idea from your previous posts.

hang in there.

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Margaret how are you doing Hun. Please update us so we know your okay xxxxx

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Doing OK. I was hit with a nasty flu and was off almost 2 full weeks from work. Not fun.

Sean and I are kind of back together. As long as he is willing to go to individual counselling I agreed to marriage counselling. We have our first session on Sunday. It is all very stressful and I am finding myself sick to my stomach constantly.

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*hugehugs* Margaret, I had no idea how much you are going through. I am praying hard for you and Sean that it works out...mostly, that it works out for you.