I'm having one of those "it's never going to happen" days today.
Sorry you are feeling that way, Rachael. I'm trying to pull myself out of that funk- I've been there since about March!
I think we can all relate. It just plain sucks! :bighug:
:bigarmhug: Thinking of you, girl.
T&P going your way. Is there something you do that works for cheering you up (movies, ice cream, etc). If so, do it!!!
aww :bigarmhug: those days suck!!! Hope you're able to get some time just for YOU tonite..!!
I've had several of those days. Infertility sucks. Tonight I listened to Michael Jackson's Keep the Faith several times, and I'm much more optimistic than I have been in years. Do you have a motivational song you could listen to or perhaps a comedy to watch? Hope you feel better soon.
Yea we all have those days!! Ughhh we alllll need our little bundles like now !! Be positive !!! Ughh we will be ok and we will be successful!!
:bigarmhug: Totally understand how you are feeling. I'm having one of those cycles. We didn't even bother to put any effort into TTC this cycle. I'm just not into it anymore. I figure why bother trying, doesn't matter anyways. :confused:
Thanks girls, and I hear you Shannon! After a while it just gets so old!
In truth - I almost hate sex now.... I have NO libido whatsoever! I guess it doesn't help that DH still hasn't quit smoking (he's trying) and I find smoking so yucky that I don't even want to sit beside him on the train home!
I get you on that one...to me its just a way to potentially have a baby...isn't made any better as M will just reach for the lube and away we go...and that is lierally it...although saying that...Tuesday morning in the make shift camper he didn't even borht with lube a bit of spit a polish and me gritting me teeth and we were away!!!
Mines smoking too now full time...and it is horrible.....guess I should be thankful we don't kiss!!!!
That's why I love IUIs!!!! No BDing involved unless we WANT to!! Ask if you can move straight to that!
I totally agree with you, Rachael. Sex isn't even "fun" anymore.
With SO being on opposite shifts as me, I feel like a "one night stand" most times. It's one of those "Wham bam thank you mam" sessions and I absolutely hates those. I want to snuggle & cuddle afterwards but SO is just wound up from work and I'm exhausted from work, so I usually just go to bed and he stays up. :confused:
So sorry, I can totally relate I have felt that many times......Infertility sucks!!!! The whole sex thing totally can relate there as well. It became a chore and frankily I was usually too tired to really care anyway. When we decided to move forward with adoption my DH actually said, " So does this mean we can go back to having sex for fun now?" Haha I guess it is probably hard on them too feeling like they have to perfom......Blech! I vote you treat and pamper yourself to help you get your mind off of things