one week later... m/c ment

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kadibug's picture
Joined: 07/17/11
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one week later... m/c ment

it's been a week since i lost the baby. i feel like i am healing, physically and emotionally. dh has been really great to me. he wasn't as supportive for the first two m/c in 2010 and we had a really serious talk... now he's 100% there for me.

i miss the baby terribly. i work through the day and try not to think about it. night comes and i am so sad.

on a more humorous note, dh and i haven't had sex in a long time. we haven't had sex since we conceived in aug! first, we abstained b/c it wasn't safe, then we abstained b/c we were too scared. now we abstain b/c we have to wait for the cervix to heal. we've stared to call each other "roommate" or "bff". what else can we do but laugh about it?

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Joined: 01/20/07
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I am happy to hear that your DH is being supportive. It helps a lot. 6 months later there are still times I need my DH to hold me while I cry and remember my little one.

Hugs and if you need to talk just let us know.

Joined: 07/26/04
Posts: 1595

There support is so important and I think sometimes they don't realize. I don't think it's that they don't care they just don't see and feel things the way we do. I'm happy he finally came around!! :bighug:

LOL on the nicknames!!