so it's official..

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so it's official..

I'm now 30 years old and still no baby.. I turned 30 yesterday and I always thought that I'd have my baby before this day came. I know I'm still young but I guess it just reminds me that I've failed at another goal. I'm really hoping that I O'd on monday, my temp took a super nose dive then went back up on tuesday, but it's done that a couple of times this cycle, I'm really hoping that maybe dh and I conceived this cycle, that would be the best birthday present ever!!

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Well, Happy Belated Birthday!

I totally understand. I felt the same way at 30 (the 28 in my username is because I signed up here when I was 28 ). I turn 33 this year....not looking forward to that!

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Never never never say you have failed!!!!!
NEVER!!!
you haven't failed...it just takes some of us longet to get where we want...and when we get there it makes it all the sweeter.
Our perspective little ones are just waiting for the perfect time to put in an appearance!!

Its your birthday and it should be a time for celebrating not mourning....it will happen and I am sending you all the babydust I can muster...you can even have the babydust I would have used for me this month.

I am sorry that your journey is taking so long and I totally understand your feeling so down about it.
i'm 38 in September and I feel like the clock is ticking and it rips at me every time another friend falls pregnant and has a baby...but I know that my faith will bring me a much loved LO one day...when its time.

I want to give you massive massive hugs!!!!
And wish you a very happy birthday...look in our fridge..there is your favourite cake in there!!

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I'm so sorry, but never feel like a failure. There are things out of our control. I am 36 and have tried for 7 yrs with no luck. Just keep your faith in God that he will grant you with your miracle. Good luck

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Happy Birthday !! It will happen as long as you keep trying !! It will happen for u !! With all these advances in technology anything is possible

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I agree with what the other ladies said, they said it so well! You are so not a failure.

Enjoy turning 30 and keep the faith! :happybday:

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Thanks for the Birthday wishes ladies, they cheered me up. I don't think I o'd like I thought, because my temp went back down on wednesday so I'm hoping by the end of this week! Fingers crossed!!

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Just keep dancing until you are sure of O my lovely!!!

So what did you get for your birthday?
anything really special?
xxxx

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I wish I had a "like" button for Liz's encouraging post - she said it all already... Smile I hope that you get your very special birthday gift, girlie!!!!! SmileSmileSmileSmile

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I agree, Liz's post said it all. You are not a failure!

Happy happy belated birthday! Hope you enjoyed it and had lots of fun!

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Sorry so late on this!

Happy Belated Birthday!

My OB told me that most of her patients do not attempt to have a baby till about 35. I was concerned about the same thing. I will be 31 in a couple of weeks but she said not to worry about it.

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last bday sucked, too

"mrs. bear" wrote:

I'm now 30 years old and still no baby.. I turned 30 yesterday and I always thought that I'd have my baby before this day came. I know I'm still young but I guess it just reminds me that I've failed at another goal. I'm really hoping that I O'd on monday, my temp took a super nose dive then went back up on tuesday, but it's done that a couple of times this cycle, I'm really hoping that maybe dh and I conceived this cycle, that would be the best birthday present ever!!

mrs. bear - my last bday, i turned 32. it was about three months before the "ttc for 2 years" mark. not only do feel myself aging without having a sign of ever having children, i have the wonderful luck of having a birthday around mother's day. every 4 years or so, it's on mother's day. this year, my bday was horrible. af arrived in the morning! another failed cycle of ttc... so, i refused to celebrate. no party. no presents. it was just another day. sometimes you need that. next year is the 33rd bday and i promised myself that if i am still childless, i will celebrate!

raingirl28 - ttc is a challenge. who knew it would take so long for some of us?

good luck. much love.