Ok, i'm sure everyone has this one in mind from time to time.
My ex just had a baby. With some chick he hooked up with once at a new years party.
So now my kids are doing all the big sister and brother things that i have sooo looked forward to. But they're doing it with his baby girl (who, by the way, is precious and sweet and i don't resent her), who he didn't plan for, and didn't even want.
It just seems so unfair. and i know, i do know, life isn't fair. And things aren't fair for lots of people. It's just hard to deal with and hard to watch, and i thought you ladies would understand the best... It's so frustrating that this is so unexpected, and even accidental for some people, and yet there are so many of us that have to try so very hard.