i just found out today that my baby has severe abnormalities and will die in the next few weeks. we are are left with this decision - let the baby die or have an abortion. if the baby does, by a miracle, make it to term it will die in the first 6 months of life.
i'm not looking for any advice in my decision, abortion or waiting for the baby to pass, but rather support from those who have been there on this long road to motherhood... seems like it will never come.
here i am, almost 11 weeks and facing my third pg loss. i've seen it move and it's little heart beat so many times. i'm in shock and completely devastated.
i have appointments this week and next to have a full diagnosis done to maybe help dh and i decide if we should perhaps life childfree or seek other options. clearly, we struggle making babies together.
this is quiet possibly the worse day of my life.