Margaret, my heart is breaking for you! Though the circumstances aren't exactly the same, I do have an idea how you are feeling right now. I was forced to stop ttc in 2010. If you ever want to chat, vent or need a shoulder please know I am here. The next little while is going to be very tough. Cry when you need to and talk it out as much as you need to. I'm so so so sorry you are going through this!
Oh my sweet!!!
I am so so sorry!!!!
I am at a loss of words to give comfort!!
Know that I am, like all the others here for you whenever you need!!!!
You have been an inspriation and a huge support to me and I love you very much!!
What about trying other meds? When I did IVF using a donor eggs, it was an easier cycle. For us, it was cheaper than adoption.
Donor eggs would be $13,000, foster-to-adopt would be $0. With being on disability for so long we don't have the money, IUI was $250 and we were concerned about that cost right now. The big fear is I would react to different meds the same way to the one already tried. I might see if I can go in and actually talk to my RE. For my u/s I have seen the other 3 doctors at the clinic.
Ah...I understand now. I really wish they had IVF lotteries or something, where you can win a free round of donor eggs or something. When we considered adoption, I was shocked at the costs here. A lady I knew adopted two children from Russia years ago and it was so much easier than now, a lot less expensive too. Even adopting overseas has become more trickier.
Keep us posted on what your doctors say....
Well as a government employee I am supposed to be able to get IVF covered under our health plan but it would take a court case for it to be paid. My RE really wants one of his patients to go to court - he is ready with all the documents but the time and money is too much.
Possibly ovulating today (or in the next couple of days) so there is still a small chance. Usually O on my own about this time...