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    Question can i please have some advice? :)

    So its 13 DPO i tested yesterday and i had the faintest of lines, so i thought ill test tomorrow am, i have done and i think i got a BFN, im so gutted, Am i out for this month im due on tomorrow?

    the symptoms ive had:-
    Boobs alot bigger
    areolas Darker
    cramping for a week and a half what seems like AF on its way
    lower back ache
    White discharge for about a week
    Very moody with DP
    Gagging every time i have a fag that's from 12DPO
    feeling depressed
    stabbing pain near belly button
    hips ache
    pain near pubic bone

    i no there's alot here is this all in my head??

    thanks in advance for your comments xxxxxxxxxxx

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    IMO it's pretty early for those symptoms to mean you're pregnant - our bodies fake us out quite often this early on. If you had a faint line I'd give it another day and see what happens - how confident are you in your dates?
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    They say you're not out until AF arrives! But like Julie said, our bodies (and minds!) can fake us out a lot. I think we want it SOOOO badly that we think anything can be a pregnancy symptom. And not trying to say that your symptoms aren't real, or trying to discourage you.

    When you tested this morning, was it using first morning urine? Maybe your urine this morning was more diluted than the morning before...that could make for a BFP one day, and a BFN the next.

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    I think it is all in my head just had to wait and see if af arrives tomorrow and it's very hard for me when testing as I work nights so the fmu is after I've slept in the morning would that make any difference? Xx

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    Agree with the above.
    Test tomorrow am and let us know. Hoping for the best

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    It's the early hours of the morning I'm at work and no period yet but I have thick white discharge have u ever heard of that? Xx

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    Were you able to test again?

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    You could just not be showing positive on the tests yet. test again. You just want to hold your urine for a good amount of time. Doesn't have to be a certain time of day, just needs to be concentrated.
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    AF came absolutely gutted it was all in my head feel so stupid ����������

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    Sorry you did not get the answer you wanted. Some positives that I see that you can take away is that you are becoming more in tune with your body. Are you currently charting? If you would like some advice I know that some of our users here or our new host for our Charting Your Fertility Cycle board can help guide you in getting started or in answering questions. While this month didn't work out, hopefully you are still one step closer to having your + result you want!

    Best wishes!
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