I am 31 and so is DH. Initial testing shows there may be some issue with his sperm. He's gonna need more testing (poor baby). So far, my testing is coming out ok. Firstly, this is all stressing him out. Secondly, he is *kinda* morally against IVF and it looks like we may be heading that way. So things are really going to get interesting. Our next visit is probably going to be with the RE.
Our OB offered clomid, but if I am ovulating normally then the literature really doesn't agree with that. And I am not interested in purposefully putting myself through a twins pregnancy for no good reason. Plus, there are things like expense and other risks.
The next issue, is that I really don't want a twins pregnancy. Firstly, they are riskier for me and my 2.5 year old son still needs me. They are riskier for the baby. And the cost of TWINS!!! OMG!! Not to mention never sleeping again. So, we are looking at mini-IVF or Single Embryo Transfer (SET) if it is an option around where we live. Anyway, that is an update on how we are doing. The first RE that my OB referred us to does not do SET.
On the upside, we have a great son. If he was all we ever had, I would be happy, but we always imagined a bigger family.