Keeping It Hot

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stacymh's picture
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Keeping It Hot

I hope I am not the only one that experiences this. First of all, let me say that I love my husband dearly and we usually keep it hot in the sack. But when it's time to TTC, and you've been trying for a few cycles, it gets, well, less than "fireworks after your team wins the world series" status in the bedroom. Do you experience this as well? Are there things you do to try to heat it up?

Lily2006's picture
Joined: 05/16/11
Posts: 896

I completely understand what you are going through! DH and I usually buy new toys and movies to keep the fire going.

jshizz's picture
Joined: 09/24/11
Posts: 1

I totally feel you on this one! Especially during the TWW while your just not sure if you "are" or not. It's very emotional being the woman in that position. It gets more mentally hard then physically.

ange84's picture
Joined: 12/28/09
Posts: 6564

Hubby knows he is only getting nookie for a baby so no fireworks or anything interesting here. He is just grateful to be getting nookie at all

elleon17's picture
Joined: 01/26/09
Posts: 1981

"ange84" wrote:

Hubby knows he is only getting nookie for a baby so no fireworks or anything interesting here. He is just grateful to be getting nookie at all

That's us too. Although I think he strangely enough he is turned on when he feels 'used' for nookie Wink

browntown's picture
Joined: 04/30/11
Posts: 515

DH likes when I get angry and/or frustrated. When I take out my frustration in the sack, he's over the moon. Sometimes it's genuine, sometimes I'm 'pretend-angry', either way.. with all of the frustrations that come along with TTC and life in general, I find it's a good release, and we're both happier afterwards.

When I'm alone and frustrated, I do dishes or clean.. what a difference, huh?