Did you tell your DH that you were using OPKs?
I'm thinking about using OPKs even tho we've only been ttc-ing for a couple months. But I don't want DH to know because then he will feel under pressure and that we've lost the romance (already).
Is it possible to use OPKs and not become obsessed? and also to still be spontaneous?
Nah I never tell DH when Ive used them, I just initiate BDing :) I think for the guys it would feel like the sex was "only" to make a baby.
I didn't tell him in the beginning but I do now, just this morning I showed him my smiley face I got on one!
That's exactly how he would see it.
Originally Posted by ShezNZ1982
I'm glad I'm not the only one who considered doing this :) I just don't want it to seem like I'm "lying" to him if he does eventually find out.
AF "should" show in about 5 days, but being post m/c it's not a definate. I didn't plan to start using OPKs so early in our TTC time but I don't want this to drag out any longer than it really needs to.
How long have you been using them, Lindsay?
Originally Posted by LindsayMarie
I've been using them on and off for a least a year.