I think for the guys it would feel like the sex was "only" to make a baby.
That's exactly how he would see it.
I'm glad I'm not the only one who considered doing this I just don't want it to seem like I'm "lying" to him if he does eventually find out.
AF "should" show in about 5 days, but being post m/c it's not a definate. I didn't plan to start using OPKs so early in our TTC time but I don't want this to drag out any longer than it really needs to.