Damn! Didn't work out....

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Damn! Didn't work out....

Had my 7 wk U/S on Jun 18 and then my 8.5 wk U/S today - confirmed not viable. Two sacs and two fetal poles but no HB and no growth between the two scans.

I'm sorry I couldn't talk about it until today, but being in limbo last week sucked the most. Did all my crying and feeling devastated last week - at least now I feel strangely relieved (with a few tears) and I can get back to drinking coffee, running, biking and enjoying my summer with my DH and DD.

I'll be back, since I have a frostie on ice. They are sending me and DH for karotyping blood test of some kind, even tho we had 3 embryos implanted, I'm guessing that it was just bad luck/poor egg quality due to endo/age factor so I dunno whether karotyping will be useful. After all, we do have a DD and she's healthy and developing normally.

Hoping the next time we try, it will be a better conclusion.

Thinking of all you ladies and can't wait to catch up with you!

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:bighug: I'm so sorry things didn't work out for you. Focus on the positives right now. That's what helped me get through failed cycles. I just thought of all the things I could do since I wasn't pregnant. I'm looking forward to hearing from you as you do your FET. Do you know when that will be?

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I am going to be stalking you every step of thr way.

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Sophia- I wanted to come and give some extra love and (((hugs))). I have been rooting for you and thinking good thoughts for you and I will continue to.

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Once again, I'm heartbroken for you. You know I felt the same way after the crying and devastation I focused on the positives. I felt relieved with not having to take any more meds, no more BW or US, or long trips to the RE. Hope your summer is awesome you deserve it. I'm sure you are looking at your little girl and appreciating her even more now because thats what I'm doing. (((hugs)))

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Sophia - I am so sorry. Considered yourself hugged. Take care of yourself. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

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Oh no, so sorry to hear this. Thinking of you and wishing you the best of luck for your FET.

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Oh Sophia! I'm so sorry. :bigarmhug:

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Huge hugs!!!! I'm so sorry Sad