I am at home with some bad news from RE. Haven't told anyone but DH. Just sitting here... in shock. They told me that they we are canceling my IUI cycle. They got back my labs. My AMH (anti-mullerian hormone) is 0.08. They look for something above 1. I said..wow its 0.8 and she clarified 0.08. She said my RE recommends aggressive treatment. Either IVF or IVF w/donor eggs. She said coupled with DH's low motility and morphology- that IVF is the best course. She said the good thing I have on my side is my age (31), so my eggs are probably good quality, but there isn't much of them. They won't know for sure until they do the retrieval. There is a chance that they aren't able to get anything off retrieval. I can't believe this. I don't want to spend all this money on IVF if I don't have good chances. I will go straight to adoption if that is the case. Anyone else have any experience with an extremely low AMH? It all seemed a blur on the phone and I just told her I had to go and that I would call later. I just didn't know what to say or ask. How did you all get the cash for IVF? Save or get a loan? Any advice would be great. I feel very overwhelmed.