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    Default Had my beta today

    It was a BFN! I expected it as my hpts were all coming back negative but I was still holding out some hope of a miracle! I am so down right now. We go to see the RE Wednesday morning to discuss options. We have 3 frozen embryos left. Last time they suggested getting a carrier. That is an option I am seriously looking into this time. After 5 tries, it seems as though my body just doesn't have the ability to carry a baby. It's heartbreaking that I will never be able to experience the joy of pregnancy. That being said, has anyone gone the route of a surrogate in the past? Any tips, information, etc would be greatly appreciated. Thanks!

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    I am sorry I do not have any tips. I am so sorry you got a BFN. I think we have all been there and at for me I know too well your disappointment. Big hugs!! Let us know if you need anything.

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    I am so so sorry. I have no experience with a carrier. I hope if you go this route that this will be what gives you success. I completely understand your disappointment. You have the right to feel down right now. Take time for yourself to grieve and heal!!

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    IVF #1-cancelled d/t embryos arresting before transfer (3/09)
    IVF #2-BFP 9wks-7/30/09 (6/09)
    IVF #3-BFN (5/10)

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    So sorry. Big Hugs! I don't have any experience with carriers.
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    I'm sorry.

    I don't have any experience with a surrogate. Do you want to use someone you know or go with an agency to find one?
    Jenn & Jus 1.13.06
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    I'm so sorry for the BFN I don't have any experience with surrogates but wanted to wish you luck. Keep us posted on how things go.
    -Amanda

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    7/10: IVF #2 - BFN
    1/11: IVF #3 - BFN
    4/11: IVF #4 - BFN
    7/11: IVF #5 - BFN




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    Thank you for all the support and hugs. Much appreciated. We plan on using a carrier that we do not know. Met with the RE this morning and were given the name of an attorney who handles surrogate services. She is in Maryland. We live in Pennsylvania so not too far away! This all seems so overwhelming at the moment but I hope it gets better as we go along!

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    I glad you had a good meeting with your RE and know what the next steps are. I'm sure everything is overwhelming right now. Hopefully as you take time and process the info, it will get easier. Keep us posted on how you are doing.

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    IVF #1-cancelled d/t embryos arresting before transfer (3/09)
    IVF #2-BFP 9wks-7/30/09 (6/09)
    IVF #3-BFN (5/10)

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    Quote Originally Posted by meggyrn View Post
    I glad you had a good meeting with your RE and know what the next steps are. I'm sure everything is overwhelming right now. Hopefully as you take time and process the info, it will get easier. Keep us posted on how you are doing.
    Couldnt have said it better!! KUP, hope your meeting with the attorney goes well.

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