Just got the call that it didn't work. I'm absolutely devestated. DH was able to talk to the Dr about moving on to a FET and apparently the embyros that are frozen aren't very good. He said that we may be able to get one through the thawing process. So I guess we really only have one more shot at this. We are hoping to move as quickly as we can so we'll see. I'm just incredibly worried about the future. I feel like such a failure
I am soo sorry it didn't work. I will be praying that the FET will work for you. KUP on your progress!!!
I'm so sorry. This is not your fault - please don't be hard on yourself.
I was told recently that my DS wasn't good quality when we transferred him. All this time we thought he was the best one and was probably excellent in quality. However, when I went in March to discuss another FET and I was told my remaining 4 embryos basically suck - my RE said "but a couple of them are better than DS was so it could work". You just never know what will happen after transfer.
T&P for you and your DH.
I'm so so very sorry! *Hugs*
Awww I am so sorry!! I know how you feel, I too have felt like a failure but the girls are right - you mustnt be so hard on yourself, give yourself some time, talk to DH and see what your next move is- stay positive and keep your head up! If you need to talk or vent we are all here for you!!
I'm so sorry. There is nothing I can say to make this better for you, so I'll just tell you my thoughts and prayers are with you.
I'm so sorry. Take time to grieve.
IVF #1-cancelled d/t embryos arresting before transfer (3/09)
IVF #2-BFP 9wks-7/30/09 (6/09)
IVF #3-BFN (5/10)
I'm so sorry Jenni. If there's one thing I've learned through all of this is that there is a greater plan. It is not always so easy to see or to believe but that's why we must continue to have faith. Have faith in yourself and don't give up yet. Take some time to be sad- it's ok. I hope you and DH are able to move forward with FET soon. Until then, take good care of yourself and each other.