Hello! My name is Veronica. I am 29 and DH is 30. We have 1 DS who just turned 3 on 10/2 and have been trying for #2 for a year now. I tried Femara with no success, I didn't even O on it. We did this with my regular OBGYN. With 3 cycles of nothing we were refered to an ER. We had our first appointment with him a couple weeks ago and I've just now taken in how the appointment went. I have had PCOS for a very long time. I was able to conceive DS with just Metformin (afters years and years of JLIH kinda thing. Had 1 MC prior to DS). Anyway, the doctor wants to go straight to IVF. He explained with injections and everything else because of the PCOS I have a much higher risk of over production (I don't really remember what he called it) but basically they have no way of controlling how many eggs I produce that way so he thinks IVF is safer for us. He is one of the best in the OKC Metro area and I've known many people who have gone to him and had great success.
Due to personal reasons and the cost, DH and I have decided to wait till at least the new year before we start this process. The Fertility clinic where he offices at offers financing and we will definitely have to take advantage of that in addition to saving money.
I'm looking forward to getting to know you and any advice you can give me now would be greatly appreciated.
I am a bit worried about this whole process. I know 3 people who went to him with twins and 1 with triplets. I'm afraid of the whole process itself as I understand it is extremely demanding physically, emotionally, spiritually, financially, you name it.