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Jenni/DancingNancy...

Good luck today! I can't wait to hear how many eggies they got. :goodluck:

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Thanks. Didn't go well at all. They only got 4 Sad the Dr was a complete jerk. Meds didn't work so I felt EVERYTHING! I burst into tears when they told me and haven't really stopped since then. Partly because NO ONE called or texted us. My parents his parents friends nobody. I have never felt more alone on my life. Thanks for starting this Meg. When I got home it really helped. Will get fert report tomorrow and transfer will be Thursday though I doubt any will make it. I am so sad and disap

Eta: I did get great comments on Facebook but didn't have wifi at the clinic. Still no excuse for lack of family/close friend action.

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:bigarmhug: I'm so sorry Jenni. I wished we lived closer so I could come give you a big hug. Sorry the doc was a complete jerk and that you were able to feel everything. That happened to me during my first ER. I'm sorry that you have the lack of support surrounding you. Just know that all of us here are thinking of you and are here for you for all the ups and downs. I'll be praying for peace for you. I hope you get a suprise call tomorrow saying that all of your eggs fertilized. :bigarmhug:

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Jenny, I'm sorry that your family and friends didn't show any support today. I hope they call/visit you later this afternoon. :bigarmhug:

I'm sorry the doctor was such a jerk! Sad He obviously needs to go back to school and learn some freaking bedside manners. That's really scary that you were able to feel everything. I hope you are feeling better now. I'm with Meg, I hope you get a call tomorrow morning saying that all of your eggs fertilized. I'll keep everything crossed for you and send tons of positive thoughts.

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Jen-I'm so sorry! :bighug: It sucks when family doesn't support you! Remember we are all here for you! I'm praying all 4 of those eggs fertilize!!!! Some drs should have never gone into practice because they are heartless!!

:bighug:

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Jenni- Keeping you in my prayers. I'm so sorry you had a bad experience. :bigarmhug: I felt a lot of the ER too, but my RE was really sweet, so I can't imagine having that bad combination.

I think you gave me the wise words that quality is more important that quantity so I'll throw that right back at ya. Smile Hopefully, those 4 eggies all fertilize and grow strong! I understand the feeling of loneliness and hope you know across cyberspace land I'm thinking of you..

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That really sucks. I am so sorry you did not have a decent doctor, decent meds or decent family support. I would feel dejected as well. I hope it still works out for you. The whole thing is just so shockingly ridiculous.

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Jenni- I'm thinking about you and hoping that you're feeling better tonight. Remember that you always have your support group here!

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Hugs. Hoping you have good news in the morning.

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Thinking about you today :bighug:

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Just heard from clinic. 2 made it. We go in Thursday @ 8:30. Still so sad and disappointed. There's still hope though. Right? I just really want this to work.

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Jenni, I am so sorry it didn't go as well as planned. I am so incredibly sad for you that you did not get the support you deserve, from friends/family but also the doctor and clinic. I just don't get it.

There is still hope. Lots of hope. I know stories like this aren't always helpful in this situation, but a friend of mine had 2 eggs fertilize, and did a 3 day transfer. She said one of the embryos was not even high quality. But one of those little embryos is their brand new little boy now. She suffered infertility for 10 years and had failed IVF's prior.

It is always a miracle, and I am hoping and praying for yours this time. I still don't know how to get the *hugs* icon up, but sending hugs over cyberspace.

Kara

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preg mentioned....

There is always hope Jenni. With my 2nd cycle I had only 2 embies that had made it and I was expecting them to arrest just like they did in my first cycle. I went for transfer not feeling hopeful at all. I ended up pregnant that cycle. So even with two there is hope.

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Sending lots of love and peaceful thoughts your way. Thursday will soon be here.

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preg. mentioned...

Oh def!! I had 3 transferred one of which was not too good!! So I would say only 2 had a chance and it worked out! Stay positive! Good luck!!

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How are you doing today? Have you heard anything from your clinic? Good luck tomorrow. You'll definately be in my thoughts and prayers.

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So... they both made it Yahoo transferred them both this morning. We aren't out yet. One was the best quality we have had so far so we'll see. Resting today and tomorrow and through the weekend. Thanks for the support!

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Everything crossed for you! It only takes one. I am sure the next couple of weeks are going to be difficult for you - I wait the waiting. There should be a test that tells you within 24 hours if you are pregnant. The person that invents that test will make billions!

Keep us posted on how everything is going.

Margaret

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Great news. This just proves quality over quantity when you had the best embie of all. Rest up!!

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Yay!! I'm sending tons of sticky vibes!!! Come on embies, stick!!! Biggrin

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That's so awesome, Jenni!!!! Hope you have a very relaxing couple of days at home!!

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awesome!!!! wishing you the best!!!

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When is your beta Jenni?

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Thursday morning. I tested last night w/ a 3hr hold using a $store test and it wasn't stark white but no definite line either. I had some spotting Friday that I'm thinking was implantation spotting. Having a lot of symptoms similar to back in April. I'm going to test again using a FRER tomorrow morning. I'd be willing to bet $ that it worked but you never know... I just really want it to work. :shrug:

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I have everything crossed for you Jenny! I really hope this is it and I'll be stalking! Biggrin

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I was going to ask if you POAS but I didn't want to sound too pushy. Things are sounding good. Let us know what your HPT looks like tomorrow.

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So excited to hear your results Jenni! Keeping you in my T & P's

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Fingers crossed for you Jenni!

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T & P coming your way. Sticky vibes also! Please KUP!!!! :goodluck:

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Thinking about you too.

-Tiffany

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BFN this morning. Not sure what's going on. DH is of course out of town until late Thursday night. I know that I'm not out yet (particularly since I'm still having some pretty significant symptoms) but I got a pretty big ol' helping of reality. I'm not going to think about it especially since when I do, I burst into tears. I'm going to put my head down and work today.

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:bighug: I hope it's just a faulty test Jenni. :bighug:

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Still keeping my fingers crossed for you Jenni.

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Hoping you get some good results!!!

-Tiffany