AF is now 4-5 days late. I actually don't remember when I last got AF since we kind of gave up trying and I'm trying not to obsess about TTC. I usually have very regular 26-27 day cycles and I got AF on a Wed or Thurs last cycle, so should've gotten it about then this time. I told DH I'll give her some more time to show up before I POAS. My cycles could be messed up from my failed IVF cycle but with my 1st IVF cycle that didn't work, my cycle returned to normal. Even after my m/c and D&C I had my regular cycle and ovulated the exact same day I usually do. There's a lady in the town I live in that had multiple failed IVF's and they gave up and she had a garage sale and sold all her baby stuff and found out a week later she was preggers. I just had a garage sale Fri and yesterday and sold the baby crib and changing table and some other baby stuff. I didn't get rid of it all because I thought it would be too emotionally hard for me right now and I was to lazy to go through it all, so it is still taking up a corner in our attic. I would just die (not really, but probably from excitement) if this happened to me. I didn't do OPKs so I don't know when I ovulated, but I can usually feel when I do and we DTD around that time and not just for baby making reasons (which actually was nice not to have that stress). I also bought bedding and am going to put a bed in what would've been the baby room and make it into the guest bedroom, so I have totally given up on the thought of having a baby. It would be a miracle to get pregnant naturally.
Also, I just found out my next door neighbor has an IVF baby. She was born last June. We found out she is pregnant again also. They came to our garage sale and bought a dresser and DH helped them get it in their how and they said that she had IVF. The wife had a tubal ligation, then had it reversed and it didn't work so they did IVF and were successful their first try. Then she found out 3 months ago that she was pregnant and it happened naturally, so now the husband is going in for a vasectomy. I always had this thought in the back of my head that maybe she did IVF, I don't know why I thought that though.
Hope everyone is doing well. I've been checking in but haven't had time to respond to everyone's posts. Now that the garage sale is over, hopefully I'll have more time.