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Hi friends. I've been reading the July cycler's thread every other day. I can't believe so many are cycling now.
I decided to wait one more month. I drove 550 miles north to visit my family last week after a few days of fighting with dh. (thats not why I left, just worked out that way) While there we had a good timeout except for one bad phone call which happened to be on cd 1. I went out and got my bcp, planned on taking them that night but then decided it might be wrong for me to start until I got home and worked things out with dh. We did just that. But i'm now on cd7. Oh well, time will fly by now i'm sure. Maybe we will have a better chance at getting a bfp with me and him in a better frame of mind.

I also had a few interviews with a Canadian Lingerie company called La Vie en Rose. I like their stores. I got a job offer and i'm to tell them tomorrow if i'll take it. I'm not freaking out over the decision, in my heart I always knew what i'd say.
(the interview fell into my lap so to speak, a previous co/worker recommended me and I said i'd be willing to meet with the District Manager to talk)

I figure that my life's goals right now are to be a better wife/mom, focusing on my spirituality AND become a birth mother. Managing a large outlet store just doesn't fit in with fertility treatments and the scheduling that comes along with it. Oh and we went shopping yesterday and my feet were killing me, legs too. Standing all day at work just isn't for me anymore.

I have unemployment insurance until next Feb. Right now we are still eating and have a roof over our heads. Dh is finally keeping quiet about his dreams of a big screen tv and better vehicle.

Sorry I've been quiet the past two weeks. It was a hard decision for me to wait a month and now i'm over it, looking forward to spending more time on 'getting healthy' and hopefully having my dreams come true.

ps, all I can think about is having triplets.

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Sorry to hear you and DH had an arguement again. I'm glad you decided to wait another month before cycling. I totally agree with everything you said. Along with the stress of IVF you don't need marital stress. Glad to hear you got things worked out.

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Glad to hear you and DH have worked things out. I agree that cycling is no fun if you are fighting. Your chances will be better if you are peaceful throughout the treatments.

Take some time to get healthy and i will look forward to stalking you soon!

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Hey Deborah, been wondering where you've been. I agree it's better to go into a cycle with less stress and things between you and DH worked out. The month will go fast, I'm sure. I'll be stalking you before you know it.

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Hey you'll be cycling before you know it friend (((hugs)))

All the best to you :bigkiss:

Blessings,

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Your post has such a serene, peaceful vibe to it...I do think the right frame of mind helps the process. My two successful cycles were when I was more relaxed and my two bad cycles were when I was rushing and panicking and had way too much going on...maybe this is why accupuncture and herbs help some women conceive?

I wish you much luck in the next couple of months...

BTW, when you say you are thinking about triplets, are you "hoping for" or "worried about the possibilty of"? Just curious:) It would be quite the adventure, for sure!!

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"augusta26" wrote:

BTW, when you say you are thinking about triplets, are you "hoping for" or "worried about the possibilty of"? Just curious:) It would be quite the adventure, for sure!!

definately NOT hoping for it, but we plan on transferring three embies and so its a possiblility.

\thanks ladies for your support. I'm so glad to know you all.

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Deborah,

I think you made the right decision by waiting to iron things out with DH because an IVF cycle is a mind and body experience and if your mind wasnt at the right place, its good to clear your head and then start. You will start before you know it. We might even be close in cycling. HUGS.

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Thanks girl. When are you starting your cycle?