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Surgery update!!-OT-updated on post 9 w/pics

I had my breast augmentation surgery this morning. I am now home. I'm feeling a bit sore, more pressure than pain. The surgeon put in 250cc silicone implants. I think it will look very natural once everything heals up. I did take a before pic in my swimsuit top last night and I'll take an after one when I can get the wraps off and looking for normal. I have to keep myself wrapped tight until Friday. No showers til then either so I'll be smelling good. If I feel up to it I'll take a pic of how it looks now. I also have some wonderful pain pills and valium to get me through.

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Congrats Meg - enjoy the new you! I can't wait to see before and after pics. So what does 250 ccs equate to in cup sizes?

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"Jenn0113" wrote:

Congrats Meg - enjoy the new you! I can't wait to see before and after pics. So what does 250 ccs equate to in cup sizes?

I really don't know what it will be in cup sizes. The surgery nurse thought it looked like a C. I'm thinking a B. I'll be happy with anything other than a AA. They implants are measured in cc's. My surgeon won't do the huge "stripper" boobs. He told me to think Julia Roberts, not Pamela Anderson. I am tall and skinny, so huge boobs wouldn't look good on me. I can't wait to get to go to Victoria's Secret to buy new bras. I was never able to do that before because nothing would fit right. Too bad the semi-annual sale is going on there right now and I can't buy anything. I have to be wrapped in an ACE bandage until Friday, then a sports bar, then no underwires for 6wks. Which is probably for the best since the incisions are under the breast. I keep peeking under the wrap to look at my new boobs!

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Congrates Meg!!

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Yay Meg!! I'm glad that you followed through with doing something for you. I'm sure they'll be beautiful and totally worth it in the end. I'd love to see your before and after pics too ~ soooo exciting!

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Yay Meg!! I'm glad that you followed through with doing something for you. I'm sure they'll be beautiful and totally worth it in the end. I'd love to see your before and after pics too ~ soooo exciting!

While I was waking up from the anesthesia I was telling the nurse about our IVF journey and said that I always thought "if I couldn't have a baby, I was getting new boobs." She said "you deserve this."

I was kind of wierd being at the hospital. It's the hospital where I used to work until this past year and my DH is an ER doc there. I requested an all female surgery staff since the one male they have there is "yucky."

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While I I requested an all female surgery staff since the one male they have there is "yucky."

ROFL this made me laugh out loud! (I know it wasn't funny to you though! lol)

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ROFL this made me laugh out loud! (I know it wasn't funny to you though! lol)

He is gross. I just didn't want him seeing my boobs before my DH got to.

The 3 nurses I did have during the surgery I trained. It was kind of weird. I'm sure they were super nervous as I always was when I had to take care of medical co-workers.

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Before & After
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There is a bit of swelling. I don't think much since I've been up and moving around today to minimize swelling. They sit up really high initially but will drop in a few months and look more natural. I'll take another pic once they start to look "normal."

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YOU are GORGEOUS

Beautiful

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That looks great Meg! I'm already envious and you still have a wrap on Smile

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That's awesome Meg!! I'm so proud of you for doing this for yourself! They look great!!

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Glad to see you doing something for yourself! It's easy to forget that we need to take care of our own needs. They already look great! I'm sure it will feel wonderful to go shopping for some new underthings that will showcase your new bod! Wink

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"mrs.doolittle" wrote:

Glad to see you doing something for yourself! It's easy to forget that we need to take care of our own needs. They already look great! I'm sure it will feel wonderful to go shopping for some new underthings that will showcase your new bod! Wink

I'm super duper excited to be able to go to Victoria's Secret to get new bras. I could never really shop there because everything was too big for me. My surgeon did a great job! I had always told myself "if I can't have a baby, I'm getting new boobs." I'm in love with them already and they still have a ways to go to look more natural. Right now they are rock solid hard but eventually they will soften and drop.

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Meg- they look great....i too wish my girls look like that.....congrats and i'm glad you're happy with them!!

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lurker: they look awesome! I had mine done 5 years ago and I was a small B, large A but just not alot of volume on top and no cleavage, tho they didn't droop. They told me to pick between 300 and 350 cc. I went with 330. I thought I was going to be a large C but ended up a D and I don't look stripperish at all. I love love love them, especially the cleavage. FYI, if you want a look that is a little more than what you got, VS has great uplifting, cleavage makers. If you want more of a natural look, got those too. I think I have a total of 75 VS bras!:eek: Anyway, my doctor never had me wear anything binding, my incisions are also underneath. I had exercises to do so no encapsulation would occur. Just wanted to say congrats on the girls!

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lurker: they look awesome! I had mine done 5 years ago and I was a small B, large A but just not alot of volume on top and no cleavage, tho they didn't droop. They told me to pick between 300 and 350 cc. I went with 330. I thought I was going to be a large C but ended up a D and I don't look stripperish at all. I love love love them, especially the cleavage. FYI, if you want a look that is a little more than what you got, VS has great uplifting, cleavage makers. If you want more of a natural look, got those too. I think I have a total of 75 VS bras!:eek: Anyway, my doctor never had me wear anything binding, my incisions are also underneath. I had exercises to do so no encapsulation would occur. Just wanted to say congrats on the girls!

What exercises did you doc tell you to do? I go back on Wed for a follow-up. I'm sure I used to be a AA but would wear an A bra. I get to take the wrap off tomorrow and can finally shower. I have steri-strips on my incisions, no stitches. My doc measured me and went by a chart. For my size it was recommended 200-250cc and he told me to go on the higher end. I'm already checking out VS online even though I have to wait a while before I can wear fancy bras. I will need to wear a sport's bra for a while, then no underwire bras for 6 wks. I'm amazed at how pain free this process is. It's sore at times, but not painful. Do you have silicone or saline?

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Congrats!!! I had mine done.... It'll be 5 years on June 8 Smile

The first week was horrible for me! I also was very flat chested and they went under the muscle so I was in a lot of pain. It also didn't help that they gave me the pain drug that I told them I was allergic to. I spent the first 24 hours throwing up every hour!! Uck!! I'm sure that didnt help recovery. It sounds like you're doing great but I just wanted to let you know the first week might be rough but once you get past that, you'll be great!!

Congrats again and I can't wait to see the before and afters!! Smile

ETA: whoops. I read through all the posts after I posted this. Love the pics!! They are going to be great!! I ended up being closer to a D cup also, but augmented boobs fit into bras very differently than natural boobs. Whenever I go to VS and they try to size me they always guess a B cup. They'll be looking amazing just in time for swimsuit season. Mine continued to adjust and change for probably a good 2+ years. You'll get where you dont even remember what it was like to not have them!

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Congrats!!! I had mine done.... It'll be 5 years on June 8 Smile

The first week was horrible for me! I also was very flat chested and they went under the muscle so I was in a lot of pain. It also didn't help that they gave me the pain drug that I told them I was allergic to. I spent the first 24 hours throwing up every hour!! Uck!! I'm sure that didnt help recovery. It sounds like you're doing great but I just wanted to let you know the first week might be rough but once you get past that, you'll be great!!

Congrats again and I can't wait to see the before and afters!! Smile

I'm truely amazed at how great I feel. I was expecting a lot worse. It's more of a pressure on the top of my boobs. Pushing and pulling hurts quite a bit. I can now flush the toilet instead flushing it with my foot. I was worried about the anesthesia making me sick so I told the anethesist and he put a scopolamine patch behind my ear. I can't wait until tomorrow to take the wrap off. Did your boobs itch like crazy? I'm assuming it's just the skin getting used to them and stretching. Mine are under the muscle also. I might be in a bit more pain once I take the wrap off as that is holding everything tight. It's nice to hear stories from others that have done the same. It's not like I can walk up to someone on the street and ask "are your boobs real?" I've been taking it easy around the house and trying to sit as upright as possible to decrease swelling. I've been sleeping in a recliner but they still feel pretty swollen in the morning. The pain of this is 100 times less than the pain I had after my 2nd embryo retrieval. How long did it take for swelling to go down and the implants to drop?

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Lookin' great Meg! You SOOO deserve this! So glad you followed through with it and did something really positive for yourself!

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How did the "unwrapping" go and how was your first real shower? Keep us posted here Smile Since I want to do this sooner than later, its nice to read all about it first. It makes it less scary!

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How did the "unwrapping" go and how was your first real shower? Keep us posted here Smile Since I want to do this sooner than later, its nice to read all about it first. It makes it less scary!

The unwrapping went well. I'll admit...I almost passed out but that's just because I'm a big baby. It was kind of a surreal moment, that I had boobs. We took the dressings off the incisions and they look great. They didn't even bleed. There are no stitches. I took a really fast first shower. I had DH wash my hair because I was scared to do too much w/o any support. It felt better once I put a sports bra on. I'm keeping a sports bra on most of the time. It does feel good to let them out to "breath."

I feel really good. I pretty much can do most things I did before. I'm real careful with lifting still. Sometimes that hurts. DH is still home so I'm having him do a lot of things and still taking it easy. My chest still feels tight. I'm having wierd sensations in my boobs. Sometimes I have sharp pains. My nipples and parts of my boob are numb but that should come back over time. The sharp pains and itchiness are the nerves coming back.

Honestly, I thought this surgery would be so much more difficult than it was. It is by far 100 times easier than IVF. I haven't taken anything for pain since yesterday morning and that was only because we were going to do the unwrapping.

Feel free to ask me any questions. I go back on Wed and I'm going to ask the surgeon some other questions. Like how long it takes for them to drop and soften. I can tell they are getting a bit softer.

Here are before and after pics. The after is last night, the first day of taking the wraps off. It's kind of hard to see a difference in my bikini, but they definately are bigger!

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Hi Meg,

I'm a little late jumping in here but wanted to let you know that the "girls" look fantastic!!! You can really see a difference in the before/after pics. Congrats to you for doing something for yourself! Enjoy your new look.

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I have to view the pics on my phone and even there I can tell a difference. They look very natural. Your surgeon did a great job. I'm so happy for you - and really, just super jealous in a good way Smile

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So far I am very pleased with how they look. My surgeon did a great job. His goal is a safe and natural looking surgery, whereas other surgeons just want you to go "big." A lady I know that got implants who is probably a little bigger than me got 550cc implants. That would be so unnatural looking. Her surgeon said "if you're going to do, you might as well go big!" Had I wanted bigger than 250cc implants, I would've had to have gotten a different surgeon since that was the biggest he'd go. The swelling has gone down and they are feeling softer. I go back on Wed for a follow-up so it will be interesting to see if they are healing as expected.

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Yes! I remember mine being very itchy. And I ended up getting quite a few stretch marks but they faded with time until you couldnt see them anymore. I honestly can't remember how long it took the swelling to go down. I remember that 2 months after the surgery they had dropped some but were definitely still firm and round. For me it was a gradual process and over the following 2 years or so they just got better and better.

That's great that you are feeling so well!! My mom had hers done a few years ago and didnt have much pain either. I do think sleeping upright helps a lot. I remember sleeping a recliner type chair for at least a week.

Your pics look great!!! They are going to look so natural!! I was the same as you and didn't want to have huge boobs, just wanted to actually have some that looked feminine. I ended up going a tad bigger than I wanted bc I thought I wouldn't be such a small person forever and I didn't want to ever wish I had gone bigger. I am very happy with mine but do wish sometimes that they didn't stand out so much (like in a bathing suit...)

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What exercises did you doc tell you to do? I go back on Wed for a follow-up. I'm sure I used to be a AA but would wear an A bra. I get to take the wrap off tomorrow and can finally shower. I have steri-strips on my incisions, no stitches. My doc measured me and went by a chart. For my size it was recommended 200-250cc and he told me to go on the higher end. I'm already checking out VS online even though I have to wait a while before I can wear fancy bras. I will need to wear a sport's bra for a while, then no underwire bras for 6 wks. I'm amazed at how pain free this process is. It's sore at times, but not painful. Do you have silicone or saline?

They had be push up under the implant, push down on top of it, side to side and squeeze (sort of fondle) them! I also had steri-strips, no stitches. I have saline.

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"meggyrn" wrote:

The unwrapping went well. I'll admit...I almost passed out but that's just because I'm a big baby. It was kind of a surreal moment, that I had boobs. We took the dressings off the incisions and they look great. They didn't even bleed. There are no stitches. I took a really fast first shower. I had DH wash my hair because I was scared to do too much w/o any support. It felt better once I put a sports bra on. I'm keeping a sports bra on most of the time. It does feel good to let them out to "breath."

I feel really good. I pretty much can do most things I did before. I'm real careful with lifting still. Sometimes that hurts. DH is still home so I'm having him do a lot of things and still taking it easy. My chest still feels tight. I'm having wierd sensations in my boobs. Sometimes I have sharp pains. My nipples and parts of my boob are numb but that should come back over time. The sharp pains and itchiness are the nerves coming back.

Honestly, I thought this surgery would be so much more difficult than it was. It is by far 100 times easier than IVF. I haven't taken anything for pain since yesterday morning and that was only because we were going to do the unwrapping.

Feel free to ask me any questions. I go back on Wed and I'm going to ask the surgeon some other questions. Like how long it takes for them to drop and soften. I can tell they are getting a bit softer.

Here are before and after pics. The after is last night, the first day of taking the wraps off. It's kind of hard to see a difference in my bikini, but they definately are bigger!

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I still after 5 years have a little numbness in the right one. The other wierd thing is my nipples are different now too as far as looks go. One is up and at attention and the other is as my husband refers to (puffy ... which by the way is his favorite!).

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You deserve it Meg!!! Im so glad you did this for yourself!!! You look amazing!!!!

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Had my follow-up appt yesterday with my plastic surgeon. Everything is healing well and looking good. He told me "I think you went with the right size." I should've said "I hope so since I went with what you suggested." My boobs are really starting to soften up and there is a lot less swelling. I feel really good and am back to doing everything I was doing before. I'm amazed at how quick the recovery is for this surgery. It's fun to try on clothes that I had before to see the difference of how they look with boobs. I find myself making excuses to go look at my new boobs. I can go get sized for bras in about another week when more of the swelling is gone. I have to wear non-underwired bra for 6 wks since the bottom of my boobs are still numb. I go back to him in another month.

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"meggyrn" wrote:

Had my follow-up appt yesterday with my plastic surgeon. Everything is healing well and looking good. He told me "I think you went with the right size." I should've said "I hope so since I went with what you suggested." My boobs are really starting to soften up and there is a lot less swelling. I feel really good and am back to doing everything I was doing before. I'm amazed at how quick the recovery is for this surgery. It's fun to try on clothes that I had before to see the difference of how they look with boobs. I find myself making excuses to go look at my new boobs. I can go get sized for bras in about another week when more of the swelling is gone. I have to wear non-underwired bra for 6 wks since the bottom of my boobs are still numb. I go back to him in another month.

Would you prefer under wire? I hate it! I don't wear it even now and I should wear it. In fact, I want the surgery so I can possibly avoid bras altogether! ROFL I just want my books back on my chest and not my bellybutton and I will be happy.

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Would you prefer under wire? I hate it! I don't wear it even now and I should wear it. In fact, I want the surgery so I can possibly avoid bras altogether! ROFL I just want my books back on my chest and not my bellybutton and I will be happy.

I've always worn underwire bras but maybe with my new boobs I won't want to...so I don't know yet.

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Meg they look fantastic!!! I'm so glad your recovery is going so well too!!

I have seriously considered getting implants. Reading your experience has been inspiring. If I have any questions may I PM you Meg, and the others who have shared their experiences??

~Jodi

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Ask away. Mine look so real that literally no one knows they aren't. My husband even says that if he didn't know he would not be able to tell by looking at them or even feeling them. And I love underwires, even now.

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My sister said the response ppl will have is "did she get fake boobs?" Kind of like they really aren't sure because they look real. Mine already feel like real boobs. Feel free to ask any questions dreamchaser. This was something I've wanted to do for such a long time and had considered it. I had always told myself "If I can have a baby, then I was getting new boobs." So that's what I did...I felt I deserved it.

I was watching Rachael Ray yesterday and it was about "Good Boob Job or Good Bra." It was showing how a good bra can be just as good as a good boob job. Yes, I could wear padded bras and make my boobs look good, but it was times that I couldn't/didn't want to wear a bra where I felt self-conscious. The look I have now is pretty much what I looked like before when I wore a heavily padded bra. It will be the most noticeable in the summer or when we are at formal occasions where I wear a formal dress.

alwaysamom...I asked my surgeon about massage/exercises and he doesn't like his pts to do them. He's afraid that the pt will do it wrong and end up pushing the implant down.

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You ladies are great! My one question is personal so if you don't want to answer please don't feel you need to. It will be one of my main questions when/if I consult a surgeon. I'm worried about losing sensitivity. And another concern is do all women who have the procedure done need to have a repeat surgery after 10+ yrs?

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You ladies are great! My one question is personal so if you don't want to answer please don't feel you need to. It will be one of my main questions when/if I consult a surgeon. I'm worried about losing sensitivity. And another concern is do all women who have the procedure done need to have a repeat surgery after 10+ yrs?

Loosing sensitivity is a risk of the procedure. Right now, 9 days post-op, I am numb from my nipples down to the bottom of my breast on each side. It is about the width of the incision (which is on the underside of my boob). This is normal numbness as it's nerve damage from the nerves cut while making the incision. My nipples were numb immediately after. Feeling is coming back. Right now they are very sensitive, a burning like feeling. When I squeeze them, I can feel it but if I poke at them with my fingernail, I can't feel that as much. Every case is different and I'm sure the surgeon will just tell you that's a risk of the procedure. The others that are a little further out from their surgery may be able to tell you about their experience with numbness also.

As far as needing to have surgery every 10 years...what I've "heard" is that is isn't always necessary every 10 years. My surgeon explained it to me that your breasts are always changing. We don't have the same breasts as we did when we were little. A lot of the need for surgery again is cosmetic reasons not because it's mandatory.

I had silicone implants since they supposedly feel more natural and look more natural. There are advantages and disadvantages to both. Disadvantages to silicone is that they cost $1000 more than saline, you have to have a little bit of a bigger incision since saline implants are put in deflated and then the saline added after they are in you. With silicone the FDA "recommends" having an MRI 3 years after the initial surgery and every 2 yrs after that to check for rupture. With silicone you can't tell if they rupture since if they do, they do leak. This is only a recommendation by the FDA and they can't make you do it. My feeling is that this is a way the FDA can follow silicone since it just came back on the market in 2007. I don't think I am going to get the MRIs. I might get one quite a few years down the road. My husband and I feel comfortable with this decision with my husband being a physician and me being a nurse.

I think implants get a bad "rap." A lot of the "fake" looking boobs are implants put in that are too big for the person's body and stature. Everyone is built differently and that needs to be taken into consideration when deciding on what size to go.

Sorry I wrote so much. Feel free to ask any other questions.

ETA: I just felt my nipples and there is more sensation now today. It is just slowly coming back over time. I'm honestly surprised feeling has returned this soon.

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Another thing...surgery can also do the opposite with sensitivity. It can also make your nipples hypersensitive.

The manufactor of my implants has a "warrenty" on the implants. If they rupture they will pay for $1200 of the cost to get them redone w/i 10 years. For another $100 we can double it and they'd pay for $2400. We have to decide if the extra $100 is worth it. In a way it is, because what's $100 when we've already paid $x-amount for the surgery. But then again, what's the likelihood of rupture and would we be wasitng $100. There really isn't an answer to that question. That was one of the questions I forgot to ask my PS yesterday when I was there. I think we have like 45 days to decide if we want the extra coverage.

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Thank you Meg for being so open about your experience! I don't have anyone irl to talk about it with. I'm sure all my friends would say I'm crazy and try to convince me out of it. Dh and I talked about it lastnight. At first he was totally against it. But once he realized I was serious about it he listened to everything I had to say. If I do it, it won't be for a couple years. I am quitting my job in 6 months to go back to school to start a new career. So not a good time to be adding more debt to pay for the surgery. I also want/need to lose weight before I do it. I've struggled with my weight since puberty but have finally found what works for me. But everytime I lose 20lbs I seem to gain again and never reach my goal weight. My biggest fear is that I will lose some of my breast size and there isn't much to start with. I swear I'm the only 'big' girl who has small boobs! Sad Anyhow, it's a fear of mine and I honestly think it's been one of the reasons I've been unsuccessful in the past. I don't fill a B cup and live in push-up bras. Even when I was pg with my daughter I didn't get bigger breasts. VERY disappointing! Now that I'm not able to have any more children I feel I can do what I want to my body. Our biggest fear at this point is losing sensitivity but there is no gaurantee either way. I already feel better continuing with my weightloss knowing that if I do lose any of my breast size my husband is supportive and open to me having implants. I have to thank you Meg for sharing your story. It has made me seriously consider it myself and I feel more confident just thinking of the possibility! Smile

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You welcome...no problem!! It's kind of hard to find ppl IRL to talk to about augmentation because it's not like you want to ask ppl if they have implants. I talked to a lady that I knew had surgery quite a few years ago. She answered some of my questions but I got a lot of questions answered by my surgeon and doing tons of research on the internet. My surgeon was awesome! We met with him 3 times before surgery as he wants to make sure the patient knows what is involved with augmentation and to make sure you really want to do it and that all of our questions were answered. I brought it up to my DH kind of jokingly and he was very open with the idea. We made sure the ppl we told knew it was ME that wanted the surgery and it wasn't for HIM. I was so scared to tell my mom. I had to tell her because I'm really close to her and see her a lot and she'd find out anyways. Her response was "go for it!" I honestly think I was a AA, but was actually wearing heavily padded A cup bras. I always held onto the hope that I'd get pregnant and get bigger boobs with that, but that never happened. I feel so much more confident already. I can't wait for summer when I can wear clothes that you can actually tell I surgery. It's so fun trying on clothes that I used to wear that never fit right. We have a couple dinners coming up that are more of a formal attire and it will be nice not to have to worry about what bra I'm going to wear with my dress. When I'm wearing a sports bra and winter clothes, it looks like what I looked like before wearing a padded bra (maybe a tad bigger). The reason I did my surgery in the winter was so they'd be natural looking by summer and I could recover. I could've done my surgery in the summer and been fine as the recovery is a lot easier than I was expecting.

Good luck with your career change and I'm here if you need to ask any questions!!

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Meg! Congrats! They look great and very tastfully done. Enjoy them - you absolutely DO deserve them.

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Meg congrats on the new bbs that is so awesome and you and your husband do deserve them . Biggrin

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Congrats Girl!!!
I'm just lurking (checking in). Wanted to see how everyone was doing.
Hope you and your family are well!!!

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I'm doing well. How are you doing?

I go back for my 6wk f/u tomorrow with the plastic surgeon. Can't believe it's been 6 wks since surgery. I'm back doing Zumba and all the other things I did before surgery except for yoga.

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Thought I would post a couple pics since it's been 6 wks since surgery. Hard to believe it's been that long already. I can really tell a difference in them from today to the pics I took 2 wks ago. They are becoming softer and more "moveable." I can now officially wear under-wire bras. I cheated and wore one yesterday though. I'm still numb on the bottom of my boob but I think sensation is coming back. I'm a large 34B/small 34C depending on what bra I try on.

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Can't wait to see the update when I get home - where pics aren't blocked Smile

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you look mahvelous!:wow:

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"alwaysamom" wrote:

you look mahvelous!:wow:

Thanks!! My follow-up was pretty much pointless other than the fact that I could have a job with my PS if I wanted. He just asked how things were healing. I figured he'd want to see them and take "after" pics since he took "before" ones, but he didn't. He asked my DH (who's a physician) and I if we knew of any nurses that would be looking to work for him every Wed afternoon from 1p-5p. I'm a nurse and don't work so it would be perfect for me. We'd just have to find someone to pick up our girls from school and watch them on those days. I don't need a job but I do get kind of bored and I think I would enjoy. We'll have to do some talking to friends and see what we can work out.
Sorry, that kind of turned into a book.

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They look great Meg!!! Smile

I don't know what to say about the job offer. It would be tempting but I can see your point about going to work for that 4 hours when you are up at the lakehouse.

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"dreamchaser" wrote:

They look great Meg!!! Smile

I don't know what to say about the job offer. It would be tempting but I can see your point about going to work for that 4 hours when you are up at the lakehouse.

My DH will be working pretty much every Wed in the summer so we will be home anyways most of the time. I don't say up there w/o him because I get bored by myself. If we can work something out for ppl to watch our girls for the couple hours then I'll probably do it. .

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I ended up taking the job with my PS. I had my first day yesterday. It was tough...jk. I was only there for an hour and saw 2 patients. He had a light schedule yesterday. I think I'll learn a lot of neat things working with him.

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