I've done a lot of research on local IVF clinics, but I guess no amount of research can prepare you for whats really going to be happening.
Our situation isn't quite like most couples. We're doing reciprocal IVF, where the eggs will be transferred from one person to the other, but we'd like some insight into what kind of medications and procedures we should expect. We understand that the egg donor is going to have certain tests that need to be completed to obtain the eggs, and then as a surrogate there are certain tests and procedures that have to be done as well. It's all just been very overwhelming and any clarity would be very much appreciated.
Last edited by Clear Water; 04-10-2013 at 01:36 AM.
dont have really much to offer, other then good luck!!! so, you're using a donor and a seperate surrogate? I'm not sure what that means for you...... but you're right taht both the donor and surrogate will be on meds....the surrogate's will be easier...as she'll be surpressing her ovaries....
Nov FET- BFP!!
Olivia Evelyn Teodora 7/16/11 9lbs 10oz, 20in
April FET - BFP
My DECEMBER 2013 SNOWBUNNY is a GIRL!
Not as familiar with an egg donor and separate surrogate situation, but here is what I think may happen based on medications I was on. The person donating eggs will be on medications (BCP then shots in abdomen) first to suppress their body's natural cycle, then to stimulate egg production for eventual retrieval. They will be getting frequent blood tests to check hormone levels and transvaginal ultrasounds to check egg quantity and size while on these medications. The person acting as surrogate will take medications to suppress their own egg production but increase the uterine lining for embyro implantation. They will probably also have blood tests to check hormone levels and also have transvaginal ultrasound to check uterine lining thickness (and maybe make sure they have no eggs or cysts forming in their ovaries would also be my guess). They may have the surrogate continue to use progesterone (either as a shot in buttock or vaginal suppository) after embryo transfer and possibly a short while if become pregnant to keep progesterone levels up until the placenta produces enough progesterone on its own. As far as specific medications to be taken, that can vary clinic to clinic and even be tweaked with the same patient depending on results obtained.
Hope this helps. Good luck!
Last edited by xtinagreen; 04-02-2013 at 01:52 PM.
Julie- kinda. Our situation isn't the same as most people's on this board and I don't really want to step on any toes as I know the need for IVF can be a sensitive subject.
Wishing you luck... I have experience with DE but not with surrogate. If you have any DE questions, I would be happy to try to answer!
3 failed IUI's and 3 failed IVF's with OE, 2 failed frozen DE cycle... we are currently doing our "Hail Mary" fresh DE cycle!!
It sounds like all the PPs gave good advice and expectations. Good luck!
IVF #1-cancelled d/t embryos arresting before transfer (3/09)
IVF #2-BFP 9wks-7/30/09 (6/09)
IVF #3-BFN (5/10)
Last edited by Clear Water; 04-10-2013 at 01:37 AM.
Xtina, good luck! Do you have any dates yet?