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Do you have a question about your sex life? Wondering how to add some spice to those cold nights? Seeking advice on how pregnancy and parenting will affect your relationship, what sexual positions to try when your body is changing, or simply how to find the energy for romance? No question is taboo for our "Sex-perts," Anne Semans and Cathy Winks. They've read it all! Although Anne and Cathy are no longer answering new questions, we have posted links to past questions and answers on this page so you can see what they have been asked already. We can't guarantee that the answer to your particular question is here, but there's a good chance!

Cathy and Anne

Cathy Winks and Anne Semans have been passionate advocates of sex education for over 15 years. As authors of the bestselling The Good Vibrations Guide to Sex and Sexy Mamas: Keeping Your Sex Life Alive While Raising Kids, they continue to spread their philosophy that everyone is entitled to a happy and healthy sex life.

Anne wrote the online "Sex and Parenting" column for the popular magazine Hip Mama and is the Marketing Manager at the women-owned toy store, Toys and Babeland. She is the mother of two girls.

Cathy is a health educator at The Sperm Bank of California, providing information and support to women and men who are building families through donor insemination. She lives with her partner, Becky, and their son.

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