Been Bleeding Almost a Month


Dear Midwife,
Hi. We are trying to conceive and it's kind of been difficult to figure out what days to really try because my periods are irregular. They always have been irregular. Any ideas how to maybe chart this out? I feel pregnant now but the test came back negative we were together on the July 2nd, 3rd and 12th, 13th (he travels) and I had my period for almost the whole month of June (doctor says because of quiting the patch almost 1½ months ago) so therefore I don't know when my last period was. Any ideas?


For many women, it is not so easy to conceive before your cycles re-regulate after being on hormones. It sounds like you are one of those women. But it would be unusual for you to bleed for a month after coming off the patch -- that's a new one on me! I'd suggest using the tool on this site to start charting your bleeds (more than 2 regular pads/day) and temperatures. Hopefully, you will see when you are ovulating. Good luck!

-- Cynthia, CNM

Cynthia Flynn

Cynthia Flynn, CNM. PhD, is the General Director of the Family Health and Birth Center which provides prenatal, birth, postnatal, gynecological and primary health care to underserved women and their families in Washington, D.C. Recently Cynthia served as Associate Professor of Nursing at Seattle University. There she not only taught, but remained in full scope clinical midwifery practice at Valley Medical Center where she cared for pregnant and birthing women, and practices well-woman gynecology, family planning, and treatment of sexually transmitted diseases.

Cynthia founded Columbia Women's Clinic and Birth Center, where she took care of pregnant women and infants up to two weeks of age and attended both birth center and hospital births. Before Cynthia earned her CNM, she worked as a registered nurse in labor and delivery and postpartum and is a certified Doula and Doula trainer.