No Period for Two Months... Possibly Pregnant?


Dear Midwife,
I have been trying to get pregnant and believe I am maybe about 3 or 4 weeks. I took a pregnancy test yesterday but it came back neg.

I have not had a period in about 2 months but I was never regular. I had slight cramping and nausea some constipation, dizziness, light bleeding about 1 month ago. I've also felt uncomfortable with my jeans being to tight on my stomach and I fell as though I can't sleep on my stomach any longer. I believe I am pregnant but the negative pregnancy test makes me feel as though I'm just looking for something thats not there.

When would you suggest taking another test and or going to the doctor?


If your periods are irregular, then it is sometimes hard to tell if anything unusual is actually going on. If you think you have already missed two periods and still test negative, then it is time for a check-up to find out what is going on. Good luck!

--Cynthia, CNM

Cynthia Flynn

Cynthia Flynn, CNM. PhD, is the General Director of the Family Health and Birth Center which provides prenatal, birth, postnatal, gynecological and primary health care to underserved women and their families in Washington, D.C. Recently Cynthia served as Associate Professor of Nursing at Seattle University. There she not only taught, but remained in full scope clinical midwifery practice at Valley Medical Center where she cared for pregnant and birthing women, and practices well-woman gynecology, family planning, and treatment of sexually transmitted diseases.

Cynthia founded Columbia Women's Clinic and Birth Center, where she took care of pregnant women and infants up to two weeks of age and attended both birth center and hospital births. Before Cynthia earned her CNM, she worked as a registered nurse in labor and delivery and postpartum and is a certified Doula and Doula trainer.