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Husband is Scared of Our Newborn
QUESTION
My husband is scared of our newborn!
Good grief! I cannot get him to hold the baby unless I go get her and bring her to him while he's sitting down first.
Giving a bath, dressing, or even changing a diaper? OUT of the question. He's afraid he’ll hurt her even when I've offered to show him how multiple times.
I want/need him to be a parent. If I wanted to be a single mom I could have been!
CindyPregnancy - His First Trimester Worries
Your partner is freaking out about the pregnancy! Since during the first trimester he's not going to be able to see any real evidence that a baby actually exists, it's likely to be about intangible things. Here's a list of common concerns for first time dads during the first trimester.
Preparing Your Relationship for Parenthood
Research shows 10% of all couples break up during pregnancy and 30% break up in the first two years of parenthood. The good news is you don't have to be part of these statistics! You have 9 months to get to know each other again, understand your expectations moving forward and build on your relationship in preparation for the changes ahead.
Sibling Rivalry: Toddler and Preschooler
QUESTION
My son will be 4 years old in July. Over the last few weeks he has really become difficult to handle.
He fights me on almost all issues from what he is going to eat to what he wants to wear for the day. Usually I give him choices on things so that he doesn't feel powerless but it doesn't seem to matter. He seems to want to argue with everything I say these days.
I started staying home with both my kids in February so that I could spend more time with them. He does go to a preschool for 2 hours a day four days a week, but other than that I am with him all the time.
Get Your Marriage Ready for the Baby Bomb!
It's been said that having a baby is like throwing a hand grenade into a marriage. A hand grenade? Why the violent metaphor for such a precious, peaceful little thing? They're so beautiful. They're so lovable. How can anyone defame such a cutie?
Your New Baby
Your challenge? Learning everything about your baby when he was delivered without an owner's manual -- and as soon as you figure it out, he changes! Renegotiating your entire life. Here's a parent's gameplan.
The Baby's Coming! Are Older Kids Sleeping Through the Night?
If you are expecting a baby and already have one or more children, it's wise to solve their sleep problems before the new baby arrives. Remember, a newborn typically awakens every three to four hours or more often...
Top tips for new moms
You may find that some of the expectations you had for your first weeks with new baby are far from the reality. Below you will find some of our favorite mom-to-mom tips for helping you through this initial honeymoon period with your new baby:
How a Baby Changes the Couple's Relationship
When a couple has a baby, it is a profound transition in their lives. It is the most important change in their adult life. How becoming a parent affects each of them as individuals and as a couple is still not well understood in our culture.
Sharing the News with Siblings
If you have other children, deciding how and when to tell them a new family member is on the way can be a challenge. A good rule of thumb is to tailor the news according to the child's age. Here are some "pointers from parents" you may find helpful:
Sharing the News with Siblings
If you have other children, deciding how and when to tell them a new family member is on the way can be a challenge. A good rule of thumb is to tailor the news according to the child's age. Here are some "pointers from parents" you may find helpful:
Get Your Marriage Ready for the Baby Bomb!
It's been said that having a baby is like throwing a hand grenade into a marriage. A hand grenade? Why the violent metaphor for such a precious, peaceful little thing? They're so beautiful. They're so lovable. How can anyone defame such a cutie?
Preparing Your Little One for the Separation While You Birth the New Baby
Many women worry about leaving their older child when they go to the hospital to give birth to their baby. It doesn't help that labor is by definition unpredictable in both timing and length, making it even harder to prepare a child who is often little more than a baby himself.
10 Tips to Prepare Your Child for a New Sibling
It's obvious that the less displaced your older child feels by the new baby, the less jealousy she'll suffer. One way for her to feel secure in her role in the family is invite her to join the "home team" along with the parents.
Distant From Toddler Since Baby Was Born
We have grown very distant since the birth of our daughter five months ago. I have been punishing by putting him in the "peace corner" but I don't like to isolate him either. My husband and I have resolved to figure out a better way to bring love and joy back into our family.
Your New Baby
Your challenge? Learning everything about your baby when he was delivered without an owner's manual -- and as soon as you figure it out, he changes! Renegotiating your entire life. Here's a parent's gameplan.
From Partner to Father - The Importance of Expectations Management
It is undeniable that the arrival of a baby, especially the first, transforms the relationship inside a couple. Three people now must share love, time and energy -- the exclusive nature of the couple's relationship comes to an end.
The Baby's Coming! Are Older Kids Sleeping Through the Night?
If you are expecting a baby and already have one or more children, it's wise to solve their sleep problems before the new baby arrives. Remember, a newborn typically awakens every three to four hours or more often...
Top tips for new moms
You may find that some of the expectations you had for your first weeks with new baby are far from the reality. Below you will find some of our favorite mom-to-mom tips for helping you through this initial honeymoon period with your new baby:
How a Baby Changes the Couple's Relationship
When a couple has a baby, it is a profound transition in their lives. It is the most important change in their adult life. How becoming a parent affects each of them as individuals and as a couple is still not well understood in our culture.
- 10 Tips to Prepare Your Child for a New Sibling
- Distant From Toddler Since Baby Was Born
- From Partner to Father - The Importance of Expectations Management
- Get Your Marriage Ready for the Baby Bomb!
- How a Baby Changes the Couple's Relationship
- Husband is Scared of Our Newborn
- Pregnancy - His First Trimester Worries
- Preparing Your Little One for the Separation While You Birth the New Baby
- Preparing Your Relationship for Parenthood
- Sharing the News with Siblings
- Sibling Rivalry: Toddler and Preschooler
- The Baby's Coming! Are Older Kids Sleeping Through the Night?
- Top tips for new moms
- Your New Baby



