Cathy Winks and Anne Semans - Sex Experts

Creating our family

As this is my first blog, I feel the need to give some background on our situation. My husband and I have been actively trying to conceive. We knew there would be some type of a challenge. At age 13 I started my period and it was regular for 9 mo. I then started my period and it lasted for 3 months straight, I was only a freshman in high school.

This is hard work

Well finally I have a place to release all of my emotions!!! My husband and I have been married for 6 months and we started TTC in April. Now I know it is easier said than done especially since my husband had surgery 2 months ago to remove a brain tumor that was screwing with his hormones bigggggg time. Well now that everything is almost back to normal we decided to try to have a baby. Well we tried last month and it didn't really work out. I'm 23 and I'm new to this whole new world of trying to have a baby.

Lubricants and Trying to Conceive

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Dear Sexperts,
My wife and I are trying to conceive. She doesn't lubricate naturally from foreplay such as touching her vagina or sucking her nipples. We even watch porn together. I have to perform oral sex to her which she enjoys very much.

The problem is that we cannot use saliva because germs in the saliva can kill the sperms. We also cannot use KY lubricant since it also kills the sperms. We used baby oil (it was suggested in a book) as lubricant. We do not feel anything when we have intercourse because the baby oil is so slippery. What can we do?